Its an interesting world out there. I love being a woman and dressing in a feminine manner, however, it seems for some reason, people interpret feminine as sexy. I do not dress to be sexy. I dress because I celebrate my femininity everyday. Being feminine is not necessarily sexy, but I presume because I actually dress up, have my hair and makeup done nicely, I am considered sexy. That is just plain weird to me. I always found it interesting that my first acting agent used to call me sexy every time I walked into the office. It made me quite upset actually, as my skirt was not short, my cleavage was not showing, but I got that statement every single time. It has perplexed me for years. I also find it interesting that because you are dressed up and alone in a coffee shop, a restaurant or just resting between outings, that people think you are looking for a hook up. Has everything become about sex? Sad really. Once upon a time, we used to approach people as they were reading a book we had read, or were interested in reading. Perhaps we thought they looked interesting and wanted to get to know them for who they were,to see if we shared a common interest. We sincerely did not have an agenda, as many do today. It was because we actually enjoyed an intelligent conversation, or being really heard by someone and enjoying the interaction. It would be refreshing, to actually be appreciated for the person that we are and I am sure there are lots of those people out there looking for exactly that.

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